Girls tend to be shy when getting along with boys. Even if she wants a boy to buy something for her, she won’t say it directly. Instead, she will use various hints, hoping that the boy will understand her hints and give them to her. Buy something. For boys, if the girl is not his girlfriend, it doesn't matter if he buys some small things. But if the girl is too expensive, he won't be willing to buy it. What should he do? If you refuse directly, you are afraid that the girl will say you are stingy, and there will be no possibility of development in the future.
1. Look at the amount
When a girl gives you a hint to buy something, boys, first ask yourself what stage of development are you at? Do you like her? What did the girl suggest you buy? If the girl hints that you buy something that costs ten or twenty yuan on the street, she is trying to develop a relationship with you; if the girl hints that you buy something that costs more than five hundred, she probably wants to take advantage of you. Make some money (except if the girl is your girlfriend). If you and the girl have obviously not made any progress, why should you buy her a gift if you are not even a friend? Just pretend you don't understand the hint. You don't have to find a way to refuse. Just pretend to be stupid. Speaking of this, an example suddenly came to mind: a male colleague, everyone thought he had bad ears, and his wife also complained. But one day, we were chatting next to each other. Although the sound was not loud, the male colleague heard it, and we all heard it. Thinking it was strange, the male colleague said: It's not that he has bad ears, but that his wife is very nagging. He pretended not to hear, and her wife stopped. So pretending to be stupid is quite easy.
If a girl rejects you and calls you stingy just because you didn’t understand the hint and didn’t buy her hundreds of dollars, then you should be glad that you left a money-worshiping girl.
2. Ask the girl for a gift of the same price
If the girl gives you a hint to buy something, You also don’t recommend giving it to her. In order to avoid meeting the kind of girl who only asks for but does not give, you can ask her for a gift of the same price (if it is a very cheap gift, just give it to her directly and don’t use the other method). See how the girl reacts. For example, if your girl says that her mobile phone is broken and implies that you buy her a new mobile phone, you can ask the girl if she is willing to buy you a watch (men's brand watch). If the girl is willing to accept the gift and is willing to pay you, this is okay. If the girl's face drops right then, you don't have to worry about her getting angry.
After all, men and women are equal in relationships. Why should a girl give you a hint that she wants you to buy something? Buy, but if you want a girl to buy something for you, she will resist you and don’t want to pay for it. Guys, don't be afraid that you won't be able to woo a girl if you don't buy her things. It's okay to spend money on a girl you like. What you should be afraid of is that people only love your money and not you as a person.
