I saw a netizen raised such a question, asking: Is it true that long-distance relationships have no results? What I want to say is that maybe most long-distance relationships end in nothing, but not all, there are still some There are many examples of successful long-distance relationships, so when you are wondering whether a long-distance relationship will have results, you first need to understand what is needed for a successful long-distance relationship!
p>Let’s not talk about others first. I have two pairs of friends who have successful long-distance and online relationships. They met through games, and then they went from games to reality and got married smoothly. In between The twists and turns are something that those of us who have not experienced them cannot experience. But I learned something from them, that is, if you want a long-distance relationship to be successful, you first need two people to work together!
But then again, you know what a long-distance relationship looks like What is it? I have summarized a few points:
1. The stronger your core value is in the other person’s needs, the smaller the probability of breaking up in a long-distance relationship.
The more you have what the other person needs, the stronger your relationship will be and the more it can withstand the test of distance.
2. The "common goal" comes from the coincidence of each other's needs.
"Common goal" is a very important point in a long-distance relationship, but how to make the common goal truly play its role in a long-distance relationship depends on whether the essential needs of you and your partner are consistent and consistent. Only in this situation can it become the driving force for working together to move forward.
3. The beginning of all breakups, including of course the breakups of long-distance relationships, comes from the "core values" that can satisfy each other's needs. The "condition" is gone, and he/she starts to feel bad.
4. When a long-distance relationship faces a crisis, the more she invests, the more she will take the initiative to manage the relationship. Adults all have unspoken standards of measurement in their hearts. I believe you do too, and she is no exception.
5. The "firm and persistent" attitude of wanting to be with the other person is the greatest psychological security and belief you can give the other person in a long-distance relationship.
Remember, no one in this world wants to have a long-distance relationship, but the person who is willing to have a long-distance relationship with you and insist on it must love you.
