Boys who are introverted and solitary will indeed have many obstacles on their way to chasing girls. In fact, it’s not that an introverted boy doesn’t want to chase girls, or that he doesn’t want to fall in love, but it’s just that it’s hard for him to get into the rhythm, and introverted boys don’t dare to imagine that they are attractive and have a market, so I’m here to analyze it for you today. How do introverted boys chase girls? You need to restrain these three points to increase your charm.
How do introverted boys chase girls?
1. Be brave to express
In fact, most Everyone knows that those introverted boys walking alone on the road may not necessarily be aiming for the library, but the girl on the way to the library may like this girl very much in his heart, but he does not dare to confess or cannot express it. This may be the first fatal point. Not daring to express is a common problem among many introverted boys, and some introverted boys are so afraid that they would rather miss it than try because they are afraid of failure. In fact, sometimes as long as you take the most important step, the ending will be very different.
2. Don’t think too much
What makes introverted boys struggle the most when chasing girls is actually thinking too much. This is the second fatal flaw. For example, after he saw this girl he liked on the street many times, he found that this girl was always at this point, as if she was waiting for a boy, and he began to wonder if she was waiting for him.
Sure enough, one time he may have seen a boy joking with her. His jealousy was already overturned, but he did not dare to take any action. Then every time he took a look quietly, the more he looked at it, the more he felt upset. . In fact, maybe introverted boys take the initiative to say hello to girls, and you may be the one joking with girls.
3. Don’t have excessive inferiority complex
In fact, the third most difficult point for introverted boys is inferiority complex. Excessive, causing them to always choose to be humble. When they see the girl they like chatting well with other boys, they think why can't they? They subconsciously feel inferior and magnify their own disadvantages, and then they are moved and say oh, forget it, let's give it to someone else. It feels like a relationship that never started is over. But have you ever thought that you might just step out a little bit first and then slowly learn to love?
Therefore, if introverted boys want to successfully pursue girls, they must restrain the above three points, and the introversion seen by others may be different from the introversion you think yourself. And have you ever thought about the above story? Maybe the plot is that an introverted boy saw the girl he liked talking and laughing with other boys, and the girl was just her brother coming to visit her. If you always miss some girls silently, that love may be in silencedisappeared, so introverted plots are actually happening every day.
