Falling in love is the process of people of opposite sexes falling in love with each other. As a common way of communication among Homo sapiens, love relationships attract the yearning and expectations of many boys and girls. There has been no shortage of love stories at home and abroad in ancient and modern times, such as "Jian Jia Cang Cang..." in "The Book of Songs" and "The Iliad" The legend of Troy and "Beauty and the Beast" about cross-racial love in modern movies are all about falling in love. Why don't many boys and girls know how to fall in love? Let's take a look at the four major factors in falling in love!
Increase attraction
Attraction is divided into two types, one is attraction that has nothing to do with gender : Very good-looking, with a high IQ, and a very wealthy family. One is gender-related attraction: boys are tall, powerful, mature and steady; girls are gentle and cute, and like little birds. Therefore, boys and girls need to increase their attractiveness whether in the process of pursuit or in the process of falling in love. The ancients once said that "cultivation of one's self and family" should cultivate one's own attractiveness first, and then pursue girls.
Increase getting along with each other
If two people have no chance to get along, one is in Chengdu and the other is in Tokyo, it will be difficult to continue such a long-distance relationship, and neither of them can touch each other, just like People are the same in both worlds. If you want to pursue the opposite sex or fall in love, you definitely need opportunities to get along. Only when you get along more will you have opportunities to enrich your relationship. Whether it's real life or romance novels, lovers will have various stories. If they don't get along, these plots can only be fantasy, and all love can only be a secret love.
Show value
Falling in love is like advertising. It is best to express your advantages simply and directly. The essence of falling in love is that people who are too reserved always expect others to discover their strengths, but no one has so much patience and energy to do this. This is one of the reasons why many introverts have never been in love. If you want to have a good relationship, you need to let the opposite sex know your "goodness" and "what's so good about you"...
Learn to chat
Why is there the word "talk" before falling in love? Talk is to tell people the importance of chatting. Some people chat awkwardly or dryly. Some people talk, talk, talk, talk, talk interestingly, talk and laugh freely, and laugh happily. To learn to fall in love, you must first learn how to chat, because language is the key to opening the soul.
