When chasing girls, you need to learn to stop your losses in time. Some girls are actually not worthy of your pursuit. Many times your hard pursuit is just consuming your own youth, and may even make you "incompetent". So to what extent should you give up chasing girls?
1. Become inferior in self-esteem
No matter how much you like a girl, but she doesn’t recognize you and always hits you with words or actions. Your self-confidence makes you feel that you are inferior and not worthy of her. Don't hesitate, don't doubt yourself, and be sure to stop your losses in time.
Especially some boys who have low self-esteem and are sensitive, if they meet a girl like this, they will probably become autistic. If it is allowed to develop, the consequences will be obvious.
2. Low emotional value
The girls you chase always bring you very low emotional value , and it has even affected your psychology, so you must pay attention to it.
What we pursue when we fall in love is happiness, so why do we do the opposite? This is not okay!
Therefore, when looking for a partner, you must see that the emotional value she brings to you is positive. Whether it's positive or negative, you should cherish the positive, and if it's negative, you must retreat as soon as possible.
3. No harvest for a long time
Love is meaningful only if it is mutual, and unilateral dedication cannot long. If you have clearly sensed the other party's attitude, don't give up unwillingly. No matter how hard you try, it will be difficult to see hope in this situation.
Especially if you feel that the other person doesn’t like you, or even just wants you to treat her well but never reciprocates, you must cut off the relationship as soon as possible.
4. It is difficult to meet each other’s excessive requirements
When two people are together, they both hope for a better future. In the direction of development, it is inevitable that there will be some demands on the other party, but the purpose is to get better together.
For example, restrain your temper, use less foul language, and learn more new things...
These are all innocuous matters, not matters of principle.
But some girls are not like this. They may agree to a boy's pursuit, but in fact it is not because of you as a person, but because you happen to be pursuing her.
Then if you are together, she will make various demands on you, and they are all very difficult to meet.
For example, you are just an ordinary office worker, but she insists on letting you reach an annual salary of 500,000 yuan;
It is obvious that you have kept the proper distance from your friends of the opposite sex, but sheBut they insist on asking you to delete the contact information of all friends of the opposite sex;
They are always dissatisfied with your outfits, asking you to buy famous brands, wear styles you don’t like, etc.
This all means that she just wants to change you into what she likes, rather than liking you as a person.
Being with such a girl will definitely be very tiring, so instead of pursuing unrequited love for a flower, it is better to give up as soon as possible and find the happiness that truly belongs to you.
