In the modern era of social media, the way people communicate with each other has changed dramatically. The behavior of blocking has gradually become a common method of communication. However, some people think that blocking is an act of cold violence, and the person being blocked may feel sad and helpless.
We need to clarify what cold violence is. Cold violence refers to a form of violence that does not directly use physical or verbal attacks. It manifests more as negative, reactive behavior that harms the other person by ignoring, excluding or refusing to communicate with them.
So, does blacklisting constitute cold violence? There is no definite answer to this question as it depends on the situation and personal feelings. For some people, being blocked may just be a way of self-protection, and they may feel that keeping a distance from the other person is the best option. However, for others being blocked can cause emotional trauma and pain.
If you find yourself being blocked by your girlfriend, here are some suggestions:
1. Stay calm: Being Blocking may make you angry or frustrated, but staying calm is the first step to solving the problem.
2. Communication: If possible, try to communicate with your girlfriend. Ask her why she chose to block you and express your feelings.
3. Respect the other person’s decision: No matter what your girlfriend’s reasons are, you must respect her decision. If she needs time and space to process her emotions, give her plenty of time.
4. Reflect on your own behavior: Review your relationship and your own behavior to see if there are any problems. Sometimes, being blocked may be the other person's reaction to certain behaviors on your part.
5. Seek support: If you are feeling very confused and sad, seek support and advice from friends, family, or professionals.
Whether blocking is cold violence or not, we should respect the feelings of others and work hard to improve communication methods. In the age of social media, we need to pay more attention to each other's emotional well-being and learn to communicate with others in gentler, more rational ways.
