Some boys may chase a girl in a week, while some boys may chase a girl for several months before they finally get her. How long does it usually take to chase a girl? Is there a deadline? What about you? How long did it take you to chase girls? The following is a detailed analysis for everyone:
1. Two misconceptions about chasing girls
Boys are generally divided into two extremes in the process of chasing girls: one is to follow the principle of "bye bye, bye bye"; The next one is better. As long as you reveal that you don't like me at all, I won't continue. Try it twice at most, if it doesn’t work, delete it. It looks very cool and refreshing.
Another way is to be patient and chase a girl for three to five years. There are even some who chase a girl for 10 years. What is the result? The girl is married to someone else. This kind of boys are usually very down-to-earth, bitter and resentful, and always say they have to work hard, and their careers are pretty good. But he just doesn't want to lose weight on his belly, and his hairline isn't on guard either.
Although these two methods of chasing girls are not wrong, they are both a bit extreme. Which one are you?
2. How long does it usually take to chase a girl?
In fact, the best time to chase a girl is probably one Within months. Because at this time you have a certain understanding and the freshness between the two people is still there, it is the easiest time to establish a relationship.
In fact, some people may spend a very long time chasing a girl, even as long as 10 years. This is not an uncommon situation among the romances born in the 70s and 80s. And today's post-95s and post-00s generation must not use this idea to try to be with someone.
Now that everyone’s attention is so scarce, it is destined not to take a very long time to get in touch, otherwise you will only be hurt. And this kind of injury may not be healed for a lifetime.
In addition, some people also believe in the principle of quick fix and believe that when chasing a girl, the problem must be solved quickly. For example, two dates must produce certain results. Otherwise, give up immediately. This method is in line with the mainstream method of the times, but it also seems too arbitrary and hasty. Sometimes, even if everyone's attention is scarce, we still need a little time for both parties to establish the most basic relationship.
Generally speaking, relationships that are extremely fast usually end very quickly. It's like two passionate men and women in a bar having an indescribable story, which is usually very short-lived. Although the vast majority of boys are obsessed with this short-term relationship. But if you do this kind of thing too much, you will definitely feel deep loneliness, and every time you will feel like you have emptied yourself but gained nothing.
Conclusion: I hope everyone will not have extreme ideas about how long it usually takes to chase a girl, and don't stretch the time. long, and at the same time cannotMaking irreversible decisions (such as deleting people) in too short a timeframe. Being patient but being efficient is fun and requires practice.
