Now when you open some girls’ friend circles, you will see that they all lead a high-class and high-quality life, which makes girls yearn for them and makes boys feel that such girls are the girls they pursue and fall in love with them. But reality can be cruel. The girls you see with good taste in your circle of friends may just have good taste in their photos. Real life is actually very ordinary. Do those girls with good taste in their friend circle really have good taste?
A girl’s circle of friends can often build and reproduce a person’s life, a person’s preferences, a person’s true state, and a person’s mental outlook, and it is precisely these momentary moments of a girl’s life that we represent. Display is used as a channel and window to understand girls, communicate, and choose, but can these things really represent each other? Become a reliable means of obtaining information about others? Or may it be completely contrary to each other?
I think this kind of revelation is not new. A girl whose living space is a mess has a very exquisite daily life in her circle of friends, and a girl whose salary level is not high. Consumption in girls’ circle of friends is always at a high level. The difference between real life and life in their circle of friends is not the transition distance between online and offline. There is a greater gap and gap between the two. But even if they know this, many boys will still choose to get to know and understand a girl through their circle of friends, and many still choose to wander through the disguise and display of such an asymmetrical life.
Many girls today, when they walk on the street, when they go out to a new tourist attraction, when they taste a delicious food, the first thing they do is not use themselves Instead of using all the senses to experience and capture these things, I use a camera to capture them, and experience them in a more distant and unreal way through other people’s comments on the photos and my own feelings about the photos.
All of them, even though many people have gone to many places and displayed countless photos on their WeChat Moments, there are no traces of it on their bodies or temperament. The lives in many people's friend circles are full of color and excitement, but their real lives are often not as vibrant as they appear. And this means that many girls have truly lost the ability to live and live a real life.
A girl's life does not depend on how it appears to others. Any two completely different people may have completely different perceptions and understandings of how to live and what a good life is, resulting in different lifestyles and behaviors. Although these different lives may be very different in the eyes of others. , there are differences between clouds and mud, but for those who choose to live this way, they have personal meaning that others cannot understand.
We should not live up to the behavior of girls recording some of the little beauties of life, recording their own positive lives, and then posting them on WeChat Moments.Comment more. But what a girl's life is like, she knows best in her heart, and it has nothing to do with lifestyle. An exquisite life may not necessarily be of high quality, but a high-quality life must be comfortable.
