When a boy is chasing a girl, what he wants to know most is whether the other party also likes him. So how can he know whether a girl likes you? In fact, it is very simple. Just look at these 3 details in the chat.
1. Sense of need
The person who starts the chat first every time, It must be the one who feels the need for the other more strongly. However, the consequence of exposing your sense of need is that you become passive in the relationship and are manipulated by the other party at every turn.
Once you let the other person know that you like her so much that she "can't live without her", in a good case, she will be "touched" by you, but being moved does not bring about feelings; in a worse case, she will be "touched" by you. , she will take advantage of this to hang you, which is also what happens to most friends.
Therefore, this is also the reason why we have always said that when chasing girls, you must hide your own needs.
In the same way, the same goes for girls. If she is the initiator of most chats, it means that she has needs for you. Although she may not necessarily like you, she definitely has a good impression.
2. Emotional feedback
After all, we and the girls are chatting across the Internet cable and cannot see each other. The mood when sending a certain sentence, but generally speaking, we can judge whether the girl is having fun chatting with you through some of the tone words of the girl.
When talking about interesting topics, if a girl only says "haha", it may be perfunctory out of politeness, but what she wants to say is a series of "hahahahaha", that means she is really attracted to you. Funny;
Going one step further, if a girl often asks you about your personal situation, your concept of love, what kind of girls you like, and makes you feel that she wants to know more about you, you can To show her interest in you.
Generally speaking, if the girl is happy when chatting with you and she is full of curiosity about you, then there is a high probability that you two will be together.
3. The meaning of topic cutting
When chatting with the girl you like, you will definitely not be willing to say goodbye. The same goes for girls. If she likes you, she won't easily interrupt the chat unless something really happens.
Therefore, if girls tend to be the ones who actively cut off topics, she may not have any feelings for you for the time being; it may also be that you have exposed your sense of need as mentioned above, so you are passive.
Here is a little psychological trick. When we cut off the topic when the two people are in a good mood, we can establish a positive emotional link with the other person.
This will make the other party subconsciously think that she will be happy chatting with you in the future, and she will look forward to chatting with you next time.God, at the same time, I started to take the initiative to care about you.
So, if you are the one who makes excuses and leaves beforehand, and you are the one who cuts off the topic, but the girl is still patient with you, and her enthusiasm does not diminish every time you find her to chat. , there is a high probability that he also likes you. You can spend more time chatting with her.
