If given a choice, who wouldn’t want to have a pure love on a college campus? After all, everyone is very realistic after entering society, and it is difficult to find such pure emotions in college. But some boys try very hard to find a girlfriend during college but still can't find one. Why is this?
Why can’t college boys find girlfriends?
1. College boys can’t look down on their faces
Many college boys can’t look down on their faces and pursue girls. They usually think: Oh, this girl, I’ll just be friends with her.
If she doesn’t like me, I won’t even be able to be friends with her if she confesses her love to me, blah blah blah. If you want to find a girlfriend, you are the kind of person who gives up before you start pursuing her. Unless you are good enough for girls to actively pursue you, but such boys are actually very rare, so most boys in college can only be single. On fire.
2. College boys feel too good about themselves
Some college boys feel good about themselves and feel that they are very good. Excellent, look down on this and look down on that. I feel that the faces of the girls around me are too big and their bodies are not good enough. This person is too hot-tempered, this person is not tall enough... I feel like there is no one he can like. But in fact, he should look at what he is like and whether he has the capital to dislike others.
3. College boys find it troublesome
In fact, without a girlfriend in college, the pressure will be reduced a lot, especially for boys whose family economic conditions are not very good, college is still the main Rely on family. A month's living expenses can leave a lot to buy lol skins. But if you have a girlfriend. . . I don’t dare to go out to eat anymore. . . After all, you have to save money for a date with your girlfriend and buy her clothes, bags and cosmetics. Therefore, many people do not want to find a girlfriend at all for fear of trouble.
4. College boys can’t speak.
Many college boys are immersed in studying in high school. Their emotional intelligence is not high enough and their knowledge of the opposite sex is extremely lacking. They talk about airplanes, rockets and cannons with their female classmates. So although there are many girls around him, no one can chat with him. This is a typical example of being unable to speak.
5. College boys are not confident enough
Many college boys always feel that they are not good enough and always wait and see. See if any girl can notice you, then you can pursue her. But girls will always only pay attention to confident people. If you are not confident enough, girls will not pay attention to you at all. He has always been unknown, and has never been favored by girls. He doesn't want to work hard and change. He deserves to be single.
In short, if you were surrounded by a lot of girls in college and you still can’t find a girlfriend when you are single, then it may be your own problem. if you belongThere are really few girls around in science majors, so you can choose to go to liberal arts majors to find a girlfriend. To put it bluntly, it depends on whether you are willing to work hard for it.
