Recently, I interviewed several female friends around me around the question "What kind of man is suitable for marriage?" They also actively cooperated with my work and shared their opinions with me. Today I have briefly summarized their views. Let’s see how many of them you agree with.
1. Be self-motivated and have a positive and optimistic attitude
What is more terrible than poverty is the lack of self-motivation. If a boy is content with the status quo and has no plans for the future, then he probably won’t care much about himself and their shared future.
2. The three views are consistent.
Only when the three views are consistent can people have something to talk about when they are together, and there will be fewer conflicts between them. If the three views are inconsistent, there will be irreconcilable conflicts, ranging from food, clothing, housing and transportation to family relationships and human relations.
3. Be willing to spend money on girls
Boys can be stingy, but they must not be stingy with girls. He may only have 100 yuan, but he is still willing to spend 99 yuan for the girl. And being able to lend a helping hand to girls when they encounter difficulties.
4. Will take the initiative to comfort girls after a quarrel
Couples are most afraid of cold violence when quarreling. Even if they quarrel with girls, they are still willing to take the initiative to comfort girls and comfort girls first, and then talk to girls. Explain his feelings and thoughts clearly, such a person is worth entrusting.
5. Not defensive about girls
If boys are not even willing to show girls their mobile phones, and are not willing to talk to girls about their family situation or their financial situation, then what else is there? Is there any trust? What weight do girls have in boys’ hearts?
6. Supervise girls to make independent progress
< p>: Blindly doting on girls or giving in to girls may not necessarily mean you truly love girls. People who truly love girls and do good for girls will hope that girls will continue to make progress and remain excellent, and will also encourage girls to keep moving forward.7. Live life with a sense of ritual
On anniversaries or festivals, those who can send blessings and small gifts to girls must always keep girls in mind.
8. Good wine
If a boy makes a lot of noise, talks nonsense or even becomes violent after drinking, then the life after marriage will be very difficult.
9. Respect girls and their families
From what girls like to eat to the life decisions they make, do not force girls to change their minds, and respect girls’ families. The attitude is as good as the girls.
10. Not a "Mama's baby" or a "little brother-in-law"
Family members should help each other when they have difficulties, but if he doesn't have his own opinion, he will listen to his mother in everything or unconditionally If you obey your family, you must carefully consider his status and weight in the family., and whether girls can share his responsibilities.
Okay, the above is all about what kind of man is suitable for marriage. After reading it, can you tell me now, how many of you have won, right?
