What does it mean to lick a dog? Generally speaking, licking dogs feel that as long as they like a girl, they will unconditionally agree to all her requirements, and they will be willing to do whatever they want as long as they agree. It seems to be full of enthusiasm and sincerity, but many people lick it until they have nothing left. Even though they do a lot, they still can't move the girl. Why can't even a licking dog chase a girl?
Your current sincerity and touching feelings, it is not difficult to pursue these unconditionally. Just go to the street and ask someone if they will take care of someone, because it is too easy to "be good to others" , people's "satisfaction threshold" will gradually become higher. For example:
For a pretty girl, there is a line of boys asking her out every day. Will she still care about these efforts and touches? She has been "affirmed" by many people, and her satisfaction threshold will be very high. Many ordinary boys will not even reply to chats.
Then why do many girls not like "dog licking"? Because licking dogs is inherently disrespectful and this is not forced by girls. It makes you grovel and treat her with a "begging" attitude, but you think "I have to be careful and treat her well so as not to make her angry" and act in a way that makes her feel that you have no dignity.
At this time, the relationship between the two of you is as if she is a "reward" and you are a "gift."
What are "rewards"? They are opportunities and items that require hard work to get.
What is a "gift"? It means that it is of little value and can be obtained by just mentioning some people or items.
Let’s not talk about girls first. Even you boys will think that the "souvenirs" given for free in the supermarket are not worth a lot of money. You will definitely not cherish them. You will just throw them away when you go home and mention them again. What a good impression it will make. Tell people – oh supermarket giveaways. Why, it’s worthless, so I don’t cherish it. If you open WeChat and just call a girl, you can come out and date her. Will you cherish it?
Let’s talk about “rewards”, which are products or people that you can get through all kinds of hard work. It's like if you like a girl and want to ask her out for dinner, but you regard her as a goddess and it's not easy to ask her out, then naturally she becomes a "prize". Once she finally comes out, you will be happy for a long time, and you will cherish it because it is not easy to get.
And when your boy becomes a "dog licker", it will naturally be regarded as a "gift". You are not valuable, so who would be truly affectionate towards a worthless thing?
Therefore, after a girl feels that you are a licker, she will not have the idea of ????becoming a "boyfriend or boyfriend" with you. You are worthless and not suitable to be her partner. You are suitable to be a servant or a tool. She will come to you when something goes wrong and stay away from her when nothing happens. This is human nature. Who would fall in love with a "tool"??
So, you will understand that it is a big mistake to chase girls as a licking dog. This will not get the expected results, but will make girls look down on you even more.