Some boys are obviously not ugly and have good conditions, but why can’t they find a girlfriend? Below, we will analyze this problem for you.
I’m not ugly either. Why can’t I find a girlfriend?
1. The requirements are too high
In fact, there are many people, but it is not that they cannot find women. Friend, but the fundamental reason why he can't find a girlfriend is because he has too high requirements for his partner. Ordinary girls can't catch his eye at all, because he has good looks and good conditions in all aspects. So when choosing a mate, many people want to find someone who can match them. Their expectations for the other person are too high, so they never meet someone who is suitable, likes them, looks down on them, or likes them. , and I don’t like it. So I can only be single and wait for fate to come.
2. Self-problems
In addition to appearance, most girls still pay great attention to the inside. For example, when two people first come into contact, the girl sees your appearance and is interested in it. You do have a crush on you and want to try to get to know you, but through later contact, she finds that you are not her ideal partner. She may think that you have a bad temper, a weird personality, or a lack of emotional intelligence. If it is too low and you are not mature enough, then in the end the girl will give up being with you because of these problems. Therefore, looks can only be regarded as an advantage, and it does not mean that good looks and everything are good.
3. Don’t get along
There are many brothers who are good at everything, but only one I don’t know how to get along with girls, I don’t know how to communicate, and I always seem a bit dull.
For example, when I’m chatting with girls, I can’t understand what the girls say, and I can’t understand when I’m getting along with them. Understand girls' emotional changes, fail to give timely feedback, etc. They have a common problem with straight men, that is, they never understand women's thoughts. Even if such a boy looks good, girls will not like him.
4. Deep down in my heart, I don’t want to find a girlfriend.
Then some brothers will definitely say it when they see this. How can there be some people who don’t want to find a girlfriend? In fact, it does happen in reality.
The reason why most people don’t want to fall in love is because they feel that falling in love is too tiring, or they have experienced some very painful things before, and they may no longer have any expectations for their partner, or they may The last relationship left a big shadow in everyone's heart. He can't stand the wayward, pretentious, and unruly nature of girls now. To put it bluntly, it's because he hasn't met the right one, so he's not thinking about finding a girlfriend at all. superior.
Appearance is only one aspect of finding a girlfriend, will only give people a stunning feeling when they meet for the first time, thus making a deeper impression. In fact, the main charm of a man lies on the inside, so try to improve your inside.
