I looked at the comments in the background and found that many fans are troubled by the question of "how to chat with the people they like." I can understand your difficulties, but if you don't create opportunities, you might not be able to do it next time. The person you like will be someone else's in seconds, so take the initiative while you still have the opportunity!
There are three steps to share with you Everyone! Topics, identities, rhetorical questions.
1. The opening statement must have its own topic
Delete "Hello" and "Are you there" from your vocabulary? The topic can start with avatars and Moments. For example:
If the avatar is of a cartoon bear, you can say: "Did the little bear collect honey today?"
If a photo of skiing is posted in Moments, you can say: "I I just wanted to go skiing this year, and I found the master when I opened my circle of friends. It’s great..."
2. Confirm identity
Don’t be like "beauties, little fairies" right away. If you are good-looking, eight out of ten boys around you will call her that. You have to establish a unique relationship between you, starting from how you call each other.
If you like Inuyasha, just choose two character names and put them in. Don’t feel ashamed. With a unique title, your position in her heart will become more and more important.
3. Learn to use rhetorical questions to win
When she sends you good morning and good night, she shares her life with you. When asking for details, ask her directly, "Why do you often chat with me?"
Most people's behavior is always the most instinctive expression of their true thoughts. When you ask her this question, she will subconsciously Find a reasonable motive for your behavior. "I should like him, so I chat with him every day, right?"
Repeated several times, "Why did you ask me to watch a movie on the weekend?" "Why are you looking for me in the middle of the night?" Ah?" Believe me, your arms will be warm this winter~!
The above are the tips that the editor shared with you today, have you learned them?
Finally, I would like to remind you: Don’t always think that if you take the initiative in a relationship, you will lose. If you don’t take the initiative, how can you have a story? Are you right?
So there is nothing in a relationship. Who takes the initiative and who cannot take the initiative? , what matters is just whether it’s worth it or not.
Come on~!
