In recent years, cars and houses seem to have become the criteria for choosing a spouse for many women, which also makes many men think that women are very materialistic. But think about it from another angle, women’s material things are just like men’s preference for beautiful women’s bodies. It is a switch that turns on their physiological circuits. Ultimately, it is a primitive choice.
Then the question arises, why do some people have cars and houses but still don’t have girlfriends?
< p> Objectively speaking, a house and a car are just a person’s material conditions and additional conditions, which can show a man’s survival value. This is one of the conditions for a woman to measure the value of a man, but it is not the most important criterion.Women will pay attention to many aspects when choosing a man. From an evolutionary perspective, humans in the past were social animals, living in caves and making a living by hunting. Men were responsible for going out to hunt and protect. The lives of others provide the food needed for survival, and women are responsible for raising children and taking care of their families. Thousands of years have passed, and human genes still retain their original characteristics. Women will also pay attention to their survival value when choosing a man, such as whether they can provide shelter (house), whether they can provide food (food), and whether they can take care of themselves. Daily needs (money, vehicles, etc.), as well as the characteristics of the alpha male, etc.
Maybe because you have a car and a house, you are more attractive than ordinary people, but apart from these survival values, women It will also be observed whether you can meet her emotional needs and whether you can get along well with her in daily life, such as personality compatibility, three views, chat and communication, etc., because a woman needs to confirm whether the man she chooses is really willing to take care of and care for her for a long time. Protect her and ensure the best conditions for her next generation.
Therefore, owning a car and a house can only show your higher survival value in real life, and may not help you find a suitable partner.
Still, I have some tips to help you find a girlfriend.
Expand your social circle. Even if many people have a house and a car, their social circle is not large and they do not have many contacts with women. , unable to show women your high value.
Without a suitable social circle, even if you have a high survival value, if the survival value of women in your social circle is higher than yours, your advantage will be gone.
As a man, you must not only have financial conditions, but also have various skills in getting along with women. For example, your external conditions, body shape, appearance, communication skills, humor, confidence, body movements, expressions, etc. can more easily meet the different needs of different women.
A man who can only use a house and a car to attract a woman is pathetic, and a woman who marries a man for a house and a car is even more pathetic.
