"The land you cannot get is always turbulent." People will be more concerned about the things they can't remember and the things they have lost, and ignore the things they have. Therefore, many girls may still have something in their hearts when they are dating their current girlfriend. Ex, this is why many boys with high love quotient would rather be single than pick up a woman who is falling out of love, even if they may like her very much.
But if you have chosen to be with a girl like this, all you need to do is forget your girlfriend as soon as possible Ex, focus on you.
First, you need to reduce your availability.
To put it bluntly, don’t let her think you’re falling for her so easily.
But since you may already be together, I won’t go into detail on this part. After all, you still need to consider your relationship with this person and make a detailed plan for it.
Secondly, knowing yourself and your enemy will lead to victory in every battle. You also need to understand the reasons why she broke up with her ex.
If you don’t know her ex-boyfriend or the reason why they broke up, you don’t know where to start to contrast yourself with your ex in her mind.
Don’t worry about not having any channels to investigate. You can guide her to confide in you, and at the same time, ask sideways questions from her friends.
If you can find her ex’s various social platform IDs, you can tell his personality and style from the things he posts.
When you discover this, you must work hard in the direction of "she needs it and her ex cannot meet this need" to create your own irreplaceability.
Through comparison, let her feel that you in front of her are better than the one she lost, then she will naturally let go of her ex and accept you.
In fact, many times a girlfriend still has her ex in her heart, which proves that she has not completely fallen in love with you. She loves you the most That is to say, she likes you, but it is far from the level of love. Maybe she thinks you are very good to her and she is very touched. Maybe she thinks you are in good condition and reluctantly accepts you when she cannot find someone she loves more. That's why this happened. It's okay for this situation. As long as you do the above two points, she will soon forget her ex.
