Many boys find that if there are ten blind dates, there may be six times when they feel good when they meet the girl for the first time, but then they are rejected or texted on the second date. Good guy card. Why is this? Obviously the blind date girl had a good impression of me when we first met, so why did the blind date fail the second time? Why do so many boys die on the second date? Any idea?
1. The girls on a blind date are not firm in their refusal
It is true that most girls on a blind date reject others on the second meeting. Because she didn't feel like her when we first met, and then told the introducer that girls on blind dates usually feel guilty at this time, so they don't refuse firmly enough, so the introducer will usually let you try to date again. If you agree, the introducer's answer to the other party must be very satisfactory at this time. Another point, from your own point of view, although it is most efficient to directly reject others when you meet for the first time, it is very hurtful. It is never the intention of a girl on a blind date to hurt others, so she may not be too embarrassed to reject you outright when they meet you for the first time. The fat press will make you mistakenly think that the other party is very satisfied with you, but in fact it is just your illusion.
2. Girls on blind dates see inappropriate points
Some girls on blind dates generally think more about it. , if she feels that the boy has good conditions and is not disliked when they meet for the first time, does she want to get to know him better? Maybe it is because she is slow to warm up? So first time feedback from you is great. As a result, during the second blind date, I discovered that some aspects of the blind date may not be suitable for her. It may be his conversation style or his values ????because only by having more contact can we understand a person better. Only then did the girl on the blind date decide: "Ah, I really don't like her." , I just don’t like it and there’s nothing I can do about it, so I go on a blind date and I’ll die the second time.
For example, the woman knows your family conditions and your own conditions before the blind date, and she also has an understanding of it during the first meeting. As a result, when we met for the second time, you spent a thousand meals just to save your face. If the process went well, it means that either your family situation or your personal financial situation is not that good. Men who pretend to be rich are not allowed. This is on the same level as Mom's baby. Count, so the blind date girl decisively gave up.
3. Girls on blind dates have other choices
Before there are no disadvantages in blind dates, many girls may Choose the one with better conditions and more suitable for you among the blind dates. If a girl gives you good feedback for the first time, but later, she meets someone with better conditions, and she feels that that person is the right person for her. The other person, and you can only be abandoned, then it will naturally be the inevitable end of the second blind date, unless the girl finds out that you are still the best and comes back to find you.
For exampleIf a boy encounters a situation where he will die on the second date, he should first reflect on whether he has any inconsistencies. If not, it may be the girl's problem.
