Aloof girls are liked by most boys, because the first impression they give is that they talk little and are not easy to get close to. Often, the less something they can get, the more people want it, so they are aloof. Girls are very popular among boys. But they generally speak little and are not easy to get close to. So if you fall in love with an aloof colleague in the company, how should you pursue her? Read on.
The first thing you need to know is that girls are aloof. Generally, there are two situations: one is when they don’t get along with people they don’t know very well or the opposite sex. Talking to friends, such girls are just shy.
Since you are colleagues, it is easy to get to know each other, so it is easier to deal with. The other type does not like to talk much. This is relatively difficult. If you strike up a conversation with her and talk to her endlessly, it may be counterproductive, and then she will start to annoy you. Let me teach you how to chase this kind of girl.
1. When you meet her at the company, you should pay attention to your image. It is best not to be too fancy or too decent, just neat and tidy. Casual wear, sportswear, just casual. Be your usual self.
2. If you have the opportunity to be alone with her, don’t just play mobile phones and games, communicate with her more, or you can also try to take her shopping with you, in a sunny manner. It will make her like it more.
3. When chatting with her, you need to do your best to stimulate her desire to talk, because cold girls don’t like to talk. Take the initiative to communicate with her and make some jokes when appropriate. When you are with her, you will have many topics to talk about as long as you pay attention to some details in life. For example, when passing by a barbecue restaurant, she took a second look. You should say "Hmm! It smells so good! This shop looks delicious. Let's go and try it, I'll treat you!"
In fact, many aloof girls just look quiet on the outside. I also have a deep desire to communicate with boys, but I don’t like to take the initiative to speak.
I have a very quiet friend. There is a boy who is very humorous and lively. He likes my cold friend. The boy told her jokes every day, and she laughed very happily. And as soon as my friend posted it in WeChat, he would immediately tell a joke in WeChat, just to make her pay more attention to him. Later, the boy was sick for a while and didn't take the initiative to talk to her. After he recovered from his illness, he happened to have something to do at work and didn't tell her jokes or stories. Instead, she took the initiative to talk to the boy.
So chasing a cool girl is not as difficult as imagined. Especially in the company, you have an inherent advantage, so you just need to be thick-skinned (but you have to control it to a certain extent and don't let her think you are a stinker). Then just do your homework and use the case just mentioned to make her notice you more. Of course, after you two get close, I still remind you, don’t force yourself before the time is ripe.It’s okay to confess, because it is difficult for ordinary girls to confess. If you confess to her, it will only scare her farther and farther away from you.