Recently I came across a very interesting question and wanted to discuss it with you.
Question: What should you do if you have a partner and then meet the person you love?
If it were you, what would you do?
In my opinion, this problem has indeed stumped many friends, and some even want to give up their current positions and pursue what you call true "happiness". I won't explain it here. Criticism, I just want to ask you whether you have thought it through carefully when making a decision.
Here the editor has summarized a few questions. After reading them, you can then decide whether to go or stay.
01 Does the girl who is attracted to her current girlfriend not have the shortcomings of her current girlfriend?
02 If she has conflicts with her current girlfriend, will she not have conflicts with the girl who is attracted to her?
< p> 03 Will the girl you love be as tolerant and considerate as your current girlfriend?04 Does the girl you love really want to be with you, or does she just want to have fun with you?
05 Who can give you the life you want, your current girlfriend or the girl you love?
Can 06 and the girl you love survive the running-in period?
In the editor's opinion, meeting and falling in love with a better girl is not a shameful thing. People are selfish and there is nothing wrong with wanting better.
But often people tend to overlook one thing, which is also the weakness of human nature: many times we are born in blessings and do not know how blessed we are. Only when we lose do we begin to realize how happy we were. .
So you need to think clearly and make sure that your current girlfriend is really not what you want, and this exciting girl can give you what your current girlfriend can and cannot do.
If this is really the case and you choose to break up, the editor has nothing to say.
But often at this time, in the editor's opinion, most of your friends are only attracted by the advantages shown by the more attractive girl, and you have not deeply understood her shortcomings. Isn’t this exactly the same as when you first chose to be with your girlfriend?
So when you are struggling with whether you should break up with your current girlfriend, you need to think about these issues rationally. If If you really don't love her anymore, then letting go early is a good thing for you and her.
