Pursuing the girl he likes is a process that every boy will go through, but some behaviors may be counterproductive. This article will introduce the taboos that most boys don’t know about pursuing girls, and help you better master the skills of pursuing girls.
1. Don’t give gifts blindly
Although giving gifts can express your feelings, if you give gifts frequently, Or giving gifts that are too valuable will make girls feel stressed and burdened. Therefore, when pursuing a girl, don't rely solely on giving gifts to impress her.
2. Do not force contact
When meeting for the first time or before establishing an in-depth understanding, do not easily attempt intimate contact, such as hugging, kissing, etc. Doing so can easily make girls feel uncomfortable and their privacy violated.
3. Do not make offensive comments about her
Even if it is a joke, do not make offensive comments about a girl, such as her appearance, figure, etc. Doing this will only make the girl feel hurt and disappointed, and will lower your image in her mind.
4. Don’t be too proactive
Although it is good to actively pursue girls, being too proactive can make girls feel stressed and uncomfortable. Therefore, when pursuing a girl, you must pay attention to your control and don't give her too many constraints and restrictions.
5. Don’t stalk her
When pursuing a girl, don’t stalk or monitor her. Doing so will only make the girl feel intimidated and insecure, and will destroy the trust between you.
Pursuing the girl you like requires skills and methods, and avoiding the above taboos is a very important part of it. Gift giving, touching, aggressive comments, being too proactive, and stalking are all behaviors that boys should avoid when pursuing girls. I hope this article can help you better master the skills of pursuing girls.
