Many boys often complain that girls are too cold towards them, often do not reply to messages or are very perfunctory. Boys who feel good about themselves will think that the other person has no vision; other people think that as long as they persist, they can impress the other person. Few people will look for reasons from themselves. In fact, the reason why girls respond coldly is because you have made these mistakes.
1. Confess your love as soon as you get started
Many brothers are chatting with the girls they like. When you are young, you always like to express your feelings and reveal your desire to date. Although it is advocated to pursue true love bravely, such an approach will not impress girls. Instead, it will arouse their rebellious psychology and make them even less optimistic about you. Doing so will put you in a relatively low position and prevent you from showing yourself well. At this time, your status is not equal. If you are no longer attracted to her, then this relationship will not be able to continue.
2. The way of chatting is wrong
Many brothers accidentally become talkative in order to attract her attention and show off themselves when chatting with the girl they like. I often ask girls a series of questions when I first come up, and explain my situation clearly. This will make girls think you are aggressive. If you chase her too closely, she will not be able to take into account what you said. She will only feel that chatting with you is very tiring and will not want to continue. After you tell her all about your situation, you will no longer have a sense of mystery in her heart, let alone attractiveness, and girls will not have a good impression of you.
3. Lack of masculinity
Many boys will always be nervous when facing a girl they like, so that they cannot express their own advantages, and girls will definitely not like them. Brothers must be more confident and assertive when meeting girls. For example, when eating, make your own decisions and don't always ask girls for their opinions. You can choose a good restaurant and take girls to eat directly. Many times, when a girl is interested in continuing with you, the boy must take the initiative, such as holding the girl's hand directly, and don't ask questions like whether you can hold hands. Having more physical contact with girls will also make girls like you more. Just show yourself generously.
If you do these things well, girls will naturally be impressed by you. Many times when a girl is cold to you, it's not because she looks down on you, but because your performance is not worthy of her expectations. Therefore, when you first meet a girl, you must take it step by step; after a period of development, you must take the initiative.
