Small quarrels between lovers are inevitable, especially for some long-distance couples who have not seen each other for a long time. If the problem cannot be solved in time and the quarrel escalates, it is likely to turn into a cold war. Then it is a cold war with a long-distance girlfriend. What should I do?
What should I do if I have a cold war with my long-distance girlfriend?
First of all, you have to figure out why your girlfriend is so cold-hearted and doesn't reply to your messages. The important reason why she refuses to reply to your message is that she is angry with you. You must have accidentally made her angry or unhappy somewhere. She's being naughty. She is testing you. She deliberately doesn't reply to your messages to see if you can keep your composure. If it's your fault, then you You should take the initiative to admit your mistakes to your girlfriend in a timely manner. You must be sincere in admitting your mistakes. You need to make sure your girlfriend can forgive you.
Secondly, if your girlfriend still refuses to reply to your messages after you apologize sincerely, what should you do? What should you do?
Instead of just sitting there and waiting for death, it would be better to take the initiative to find her. You can always find her, right? You can ask her family, her best friends, or her colleagues. Ask the people around her to tell you where she is hiding. some Problem, you may not be able to communicate via text or phone. Only if you try every means to find her and communicate with her face to face can your problems be solved.
Third, you might as well calm down for a while. Now that she's angry, stop urging her to text you back or ask her for an answer. You can wait until her anger subsides and then you go to her again. Some things cannot be impatient.
After both parties have calmed down, try to use the following methods to resolve the cold war:
1. Act coquettishly: Most boys will have a hero complex and hope to protect and accommodate the one they like. People, then coquettishness is a practice that just satisfies the heroic plot of boys. Acting coquettishly will make boys feel that you need her.
2. Seeking peace through text: There are many couples who don’t want to answer or see each other after they quarrel. Then at this time you can send him a long text message or email, etc.
3. Apologize: If the quarrel is caused by your own unreasonableness or bad temper, you should start from yourself to find your own problem and apologize to your dear one. Jiao, tell him that you have correctly recognized your mistake, and you will solve the problem properly if you don't do it again next time.