If you want to avoid becoming a bitch when chasing girls, it is actually very simple. It only requires 4 words: be strong without desire. If you can understand these four words thoroughly, I dare to say: From the perspective of mentality alone, you cannot become a licking dog.
Girls are not for pursuit, but for attraction. The so-called attraction is just to create an opportunity for others to get to know you, nothing more.
Most boys think that "liking" means doing your best to be nice to someone, and then impressing the girl so that they have no reason not to be with them.
Such a mentality can easily cause two problems:
1. "Continuously moving one person" will inevitably consume a huge amount of financial resources and energy. Once you fail to do it later, Once it's done, it's easy for girls to think "you've changed."
2. The low-profile pursuit mode is often thankless and laborious. Even the more you don’t get it, the easier it is for you to be humble and kneel down.
Why do you always become a licker and give the initiative to others step by step?
To tell you the truth - your "availability" is too strong.
The higher the availability of your exposure: you can return to someone’s house within 24 hours, the less willing girls will be to take the initiative with you. The more you go up the pole to post, the more girls are willing to "shop around."
So, you have to understand one truth: to attract a girl, you don’t just follow her behind and tell her “how much I like you”, but the most important thing to consider is “how to win her love.” ".
What is the correct way to attract girls?
In fact, it is very simple. After you add WeChat, you can simply chat for a few words instead of posting at once to show your attentiveness.
After that, your circle of friends can show your life and give girls a general impression of you: what do you do, what are your interests and hobbies, do you have a good eye... .....
Then, in the process of chatting, it is actually a two-way value exchange process, letting each other know: what kind of person the other person is, what kind of life attitude he has, and what kind of life attitude he has. What are the shining points?
There is no need to chat all the time, because a girl relies on her own insidious observation to understand a boy, rather than listening to you One-sided words.
Similarly, the more you like a girl, the less you should focus on this person.
Partly ambiguous and partly mysterious, this is the best way to attract girls.
Men who have things to do and ideals to pursue are often more likely to win girls.favor. Don't always find a girl to chat with. If she has high enthusiasm and feedback, just chat more. When the conversation gets to a high point, show your value and leave.
Don’t say everything before you get together, and leave some room for mystery for yourself. Let girls take the initiative to explore your life, which is far more effective than if you completely withdraw from it.
