Many single men and women choose to go on blind dates to find their spouses, some successfully find them, and some do not. But if the blind date process is pleasant, they will exchange each other's contact information, which is the best way to consolidate their good feelings. After a blind date, how do you chat with a girl on WeChat?
When chatting, try not to ask too much about the other person’s past and additions. After a girl sends a WeChat message, don’t ask her about her past experiences right away. First of all, you should pay more attention to her circle of friends and look for topics. Learn to interact with girls. This requires boys to be more proactive, so that girls will not always take care of themselves. You can give girls more comments and likes, and more importantly, learn to communicate and deepen each other’s understanding through communication.
To be specific, talk about your personality, hobbies, living habits, parents, etc. The most important thing is to find out what the other person's blind date standards are and see if you meet them. Boys should take the initiative to better control the chat situation, but we should also grasp the scale. If a girl doesn't want to talk about a certain topic, don't force her to talk about it, stay patient, and be careful about sensitive topics. until.
There are many things you can talk about after meeting. Even if two people were not familiar with each other before, they will no longer be strangers after meeting. First, you can talk about your usual hobbies in order to expand the topic. Only by having common interests can we get in better contact with her and find a common language.
Next we can talk about food and work, but the most important thing is the criteria for choosing a spouse. You need to express your love views in the most authentic way without worrying about offending the other person. This will make it easier to find the person who is most suitable for you. Of course, we can't be too straightforward. After all, girls are very sensitive.
What you need to do after the blind date is to get to know the girl better and talk about some more realistic topics. If during this process, you find that you are not suitable for each other, then let go early and look for the next target. If you find that she is what you like, then seize the opportunity and actively pursue her.
