I already have a girlfriend, but I meet another girl I like. In this case, should I choose to break up and pursue a new relationship, or should I forget this girl?
1. Think clearly about what you want
Everyone has the right to choose, but in When you have a girlfriend and like another girl, don’t rush to break up. You have to think clearly about what you want:
If you feel that you have no relationship with your girlfriend now , and you and your girlfriend are still very young, it would be unfair to you and your girlfriend to keep making do with each other like this. Then whether you have met another girl you like or not, you can still be with your girlfriend When you break up, don't give in because you're worried about hurting her. This is irresponsible to both of you.
If you have taken your annual leave and want to settle down, and your girlfriend is also a suitable candidate for marriage, and you also think your current girlfriend is very good, there is nothing wrong with her and she treats you very well. Well, he is a person who lives his life. Then you have to even consider whether to pursue other girls you like just for the sake of the moment.
2. Do you like the new and hate the old?
Some boys have girlfriends and like another girl. It’s not that I really don’t love my girlfriend anymore and I really like other girls, but it’s because I feel like there’s no freshness when I’m in a relationship, and I feel boring when the relationship becomes dull. When I suddenly meet a new girl, I think it’s love, so I want to find a new girl as my girlfriend.
If this is the case for you, even if you break up with your girlfriend now and find another girl who is fresh, then if you have been with this girl for a long time, your relationship will gradually become dull. , without the original freshness, should you continue to change at this time or what should you do?
If you just covet the temporary freshness, then you will be stuck in this kind of breakup-falling and breaking up again... for the rest of your life.
3. Talk to your girlfriend
If you also know that you have a girlfriend If you fall in love with another girl and you fall in love with another girl, I suggest you and your girlfriend suggest that you try to separate from her for a month (of course, don’t tell your girlfriend that you like another girl, tell her that you are on a business trip or how).
During the period when you are apart, while you are enjoying the time alone, see if you miss your girlfriend? If you only know how she feels after losing her, then cherish it. she. If you and your boyfriend are having a relaxed and happy life after separation, and you would rather be with a girl other than her, you can break up with her cruelly, as this will be good for both of you.
YesWe cannot stand on the moral high ground and blindly condemn someone who has a girlfriend and likes another girl. After all, emotional matters cannot be controlled, and if we no longer love each other, breaking up early will be a relief for both parties. Of course, although the novelty of the picture is refreshing for a while, the consequences are endless.
