What does the candy effect mean? The Candy Effect is about an experiment in which a group of children tried various methods to resist temptation. Some children just wanted to have fun immediately, so they picked up the candy and ate it directly. After many years of follow-up Later, I discovered that children who enjoy themselves immediately tend to be more hesitant in making decisions, are more willful, and have their self-esteem more easily hurt. Some people may be wondering after hearing this, how can the candy effect be used to chase girls? Let me tell you in detail below.
How to use the candy effect to chase girls
1. Restrain the initiative
I really I particularly understand the state of loving someone to the point of forgetting myself, and I can’t help but reply instantly even when chatting. If a girl doesn’t reply instantly, I may have random thoughts, and even want to know the girl’s movements every moment. Or I just can't help but want to wait for someone downstairs. When girls don't reply to messages, they can't help but send a dozen messages or short essays. Although they know that this approach is cheap, they just can't restrain themselves.
The above situation is not pleasing to girls. In fact, it is also a burden to you, right? Instead of being annoying at this time, it is better to imitate the candy effect and exercise restraint for a quarter of an hour. Maybe you will be more attractive for a quarter of an hour and remind girls of your goodness. So the restraint I am talking about here does not mean that you should ignore her, not look for her, and leave her alone, but that you should learn to play hard to get appropriately. After all, the more restraint you have, the more you will attract, right?
2. Take the initiative
In addition to restraining the initiative, we must also take the initiative in the relationship between the sexes. Instead of handing over your power obediently and being reduced to a licking dog, that would be boring. In a relationship, if you let yourself lose the balance between the two states, you will slowly lose yourself. This is your main intention, why bother? If you don’t know how to take the initiative in the relationship between the sexes, you can come to me. I will teach you how to mobilize girls’ emotions based on cases, guide girls to express their truest inner needs, and the most useful way to get along. , upgrade the relationship as early as possible.
Maybe some brothers will refute me after hearing this. Does instant carpe diem mean you are inferior to others? No, what I want to say is that according to the experimental effect, what is needed is the best, and what is not needed often requires restraint in order to be more charming. Therefore, it takes methods and skills to guide girls to express their needs, instead of just saying that you can pursue them however you want, and the outcome will be very different.
