Quarrels and cold wars between couples are inevitable, but too long a cooling-off period can cause rifts in their relationship. This article will show you how to end the Cold War and rebuild good relations in no more than a few days.
1. Communicate to solve problems
When a dispute occurs, both parties should sit down and communicate well to understand each other. thoughts and feelings and find solutions to problems. If one party is unwilling to talk about the problem, you can give the other party some time first, but no more than two days.
2. Avoid accusations and attacks
In communication, avoid using offensive language and blaming the other party. Instead, express your feelings and needs and try to understand the other person's perspective.
3. Find common ground
Even in a dispute, there may be some common ground. Both parties can look for these commonalities and start communicating again on this basis.
4. Make changes
If the dispute is caused by someone's behavior, then that person should consider making changes. This shows the other person that you are sincere and can ease tensions.
5. Rebuilding trust
During the Cold War, trust on both sides was likely to be affected. Therefore, rebuilding trust is a very important step. Trust can be rebuilt by communicating openly, admitting mistakes, and making changes.
The cold war between lovers should not last more than a few days, otherwise it will have a negative impact on the relationship. By communicating to solve problems, avoiding offensive language, finding common ground, making changes and rebuilding trust, the cold war can be ended and good relationships can be re-established in a short period of time.
