If you are too honest when chasing girls and don’t know how to attract girls and upgrade your relationship, over time you will receive a good guy card from the girl telling you to quit. So how do you avoid being given good guy cards by girls?
1. Don’t provide value implicitly
Many brothers are obedient to all kinds of requests from girls. They think that if they like her, they must obey her. In fact, such an approach will only make girls think that you are a "licking dog", for example
< p> Girls: I haven’t spent much money recently. Why don’t I have any money?Boys: I still have some here. You can use it first. If you don’t need it, ask me for it again
Here the girl is asking for value from you. You directly give her your value and money without considering whether your financial situation meets the current situation. It also shows your low value in front of the girl. To the girl, you It is unattractive, and your relationship is stuck in the stage of asking for the value that is asked for.
If you want to further close the relationship, you need to express your opinions and values ????in front of girls, show your high value, and conduct value exchanges with girls to make the value you provide more meaningful.
Girls: I haven’t spent much money recently, why do I have no money?
Boys: I have spent a lot of money recently, but I did some projects in the company and received some bonuses
Girl: Oh, why am I not as lucky as you?
Boy: Haha, I can lend you some. It’s important to be frugal. There’s a new cake shop that opened recently. Do you want to try it together?
Girl: OK
2. Show your interest in her appropriately
Maintain your aggressiveness as a male, this is to avoid being sent the good guy card key. Let the other person feel that you are a man who wants to have her, not an honest person who is at her mercy.
In the early stages of the relationship, your interest in her cannot be very strong, a little is enough, otherwise she will mistakenly think that you only know her to sleep with her; After she has shown enough kindness to you, it is inappropriate if she continues to maintain a distant attitude. At this time, she needs to show a strong possessiveness. In other words, let her feel your love.
3. Show your high value
When a girl sends you a good person card, it means that you are a good person. , so what is a good person? A good person means that you are of low value to girls and have not reached the level of attracting girls.requirements, so you need to show your high value in front of girls.
So how do you show your high value? That is, you have to send a message to girls to show your advantages, so that girls can feel a sense of security and belonging with you. As long as the girl's interest index in you goes up. Now that you have a good impression and can feel a sense of security with you, then this girl likes you and you should seize the opportunity.
