Everyone should know the situation when a girl hangs on you, that is, she doesn’t accept your confession, but her feedback is very good when you chat with her. She accepts you when you ask her out and give her gifts, but she just I don’t agree to have a romantic relationship with you. So if you clearly know that a girl is hanging on to you, but you still don’t want to give up on her, can you pursue the girl who is hanging on to you?
1. Why do girls hang on to you?
If you find a girl hanging on you all the time, it means that in her heart, you are not enough of a provider, or even a spare tire. . In this case, you are "valuable", but you are still far from the standard to be her boyfriend (maybe she thinks too highly of herself, who knows).
But she won’t reject you explicitly, but will say something to you that seems promising to pursue her, such as: As long as you do something difficult, she is willing to be your girl. Friends; or, find some excuses such as "I didn't wash my hair today and it's not suitable to go out today" or "I'm not in the mood to fall in love recently" to avoid answering your questions directly. In reality? If the person who asked her out was a rich, handsome or second-generation man, she might fall for it that night.
So essentially, the girl who is hanging on to you is not that they are really not ready for a relationship, she simply thinks that you are not worthy of being her boyfriend.
2. It is best not to chase a girl who is hanging on you
Some boys encounter a girl who is hanging on you Girls often feel that they have a great chance of chasing her, so they will stalk her and become a disgusting character; or they will kneel and lick her in a fancy way and become her loyal tool. These two approaches will either use your power to hurt others, or you will hurt yourself, be inefficient, and get stuck in the quagmire.
The best way to solve this problem is to see the essence of it all - the girl who hangs on you just doesn't like you, and once the stereotype is formed, it is difficult to change; she sees If not, it's her problem. Why do you say it's her problem? Because value is very subjective. For example, there are many pretty girls in our lives who are easier to pursue than girls with average looks. This is the case.
In fact, as long as a boy knows enough girls, you will find that each girl has different requirements and ideas. You don't need to think of a girl's rejection as a test. Just because you "fail" doesn't mean you're not good. Therefore, you should let go of your inferiority complex and calmly say goodbye to the girl who cares about you. The point is, just because she doesn't know how to cherish you, it doesn't mean that other girls don't understand and there's no need to waste time on her.
After you really give up, the girl who is hanging on to you will actually be a little panicked because she has not found someone better than you. A better spare tire. If she can't find a better partner in the future, she will have no way out. At this time, she may take the initiative to come to you.Show kindness to you.
