Couples in love will more or less have some conflicts, and sometimes their girlfriends may be angry because of these conflicts. In this case, some boys find that the more they coax their girlfriends, the more angry they become, and those who don’t coax them get even more angry. , which puts us in a dilemma, which really troubles our male compatriots.
In fact, most of the time when a girlfriend is angry, she hopes that her boyfriend will come to coax her. Therefore, those boys who are helpless and just let her go should change their minds. When your girlfriend gets angry in front of you, she just hopes to attract your attention and get your care. So how can coaxing be effective?
1. Understand why your girlfriend is angry
Solve the problem, First, analyze the cause of the problem. There must be a reason for your girlfriend to be angry. At this time, you should not ask her what's wrong. You should reflect on what you have done wrong recently, what words you have said wrongly, whether you don't care enough about her, and whether your attitude is too perfunctory. Only by finding the right reasons can you calm your girlfriend's anger as quickly as possible and solve the problem.
2. Learn to admit your mistakes
When your girlfriend is angry, you should admit your mistakes. Although you are not wrong, don’t worry about trivial things at this time, and use a man’s mind to be more tolerant of her. , because it is useless to reason with her at this time. The angry woman is already irrational, and the more you explain, the more angry she will be.
3. Be sincere and gentle
When coaxing your girlfriend, you must be gentle and sincere, and must not be perfunctory. Prevaricate. Women are a group that attaches great importance to rituals, so when coaxing a woman, don't try to tease her with a playful smile at first. This may make her even more angry. Wait until her mood has calmed down before you try telling her a joke to tease her.
4. Buy a gift
At this time, a gift can make your girlfriend feel that you value her, and can also divert her attention, which usually has a good effect. , the gift can be a bag, a pair of shoes, or a certain food that she usually likes to eat very much. If it is her favorite sweets, it will not only make her temporarily forget her anger, but also enjoy delicious food.
5. Accompany quietly
Conflicts and quarrels will only make the situation more serious. The above methods When all else fails, accompany you quietly, hug gently, let your actions express your attitude, and feel your sincerity. This is the so-called "silence is better than sound at this time"!
The barriers between people Growing older and growing up, being in love is a very precious fate, and being able to feel happiness in a limited life is also a very rare time, so don’t get caught up in arguing over trivial matters, sometimes you winThe argument loses its heart.
