During the blind date, if both parties have intention, then the two parties will naturally keep in touch and continue to understand each other in depth. If both parties have no intention, they will naturally stop contacting each other. So if you only have a unilateral intention and the other party has no intention, and the confession is rejected, how should you continue to pursue it?
How should you continue to pursue the person you are dating after being rejected?
1. Disconnect
Many girls will fantasize about the blind date before going on a blind date. After meeting, if you find that it is very different from what you imagined, you will feel very disappointed, and you will naturally feel a psychological gap.
Although you go on one or two dates later, once you no longer feel the charm of the other person, the chance of rejection will be much greater.
Therefore, don’t be impatient after being rejected, and don’t pester and stalk her, because this will not only fail to arouse the other person’s goodwill, but will only make her feel more and more bored with you. In the end Not even friends anymore. You can cut off contact with her for a while.
2. Improve your soft conditions
During the period when you have not contacted her, you You must work hard to increase your soft conditions, get rid of some of your bad habits first, and make her look at you differently.
It should be noted that the blind date is very short, and your talent and self-cultivation cannot be fully displayed to her in a few hours. What you need to show is a side of yourself that she can't see. Give her a chance and give yourself a chance.
For example, she subjectively judged that your social circle was too narrow. You don’t like small animals, you don’t know humor, you don’t know how to dress, and you are not a warm man.
Then you show it through Moments or other methods, let her see it, and make her feel that she was wrong in the first place.
3. Start as friends
Blind date is different from falling in love, it is a kind of rough love The way of expression and purpose are very strong. As a result, many girls think that once they agree, they will marry her and they will no longer have the right to find true love.
In fact, this understanding is wrong. Blind date only creates an opportunity for two single people to meet. As for success, it depends on the interaction and warming of the relationship between the two parties.
So when you reach the point of inviting her, you should first contact her as a friend. Show off your talents and strengths during the contact process. Then from friends to close friends, and finally to boyfriend.
Love does not come by waiting, it depends on actions, skills, and aIn exchange for a sincere heart. If you understand, then please take action immediately.
