In the process of chasing girls, some people don’t understand that the girl’s rejection may be due to her reserve, and they rashly give up pursuing the girl. In fact, there is hope for persisting. There are also people who don't know that a girl's rejection may be a real rejection, and mistakenly think that the girl is reserved, embarrassed to accept herself, and bother the girl again and again. So what’s the difference between a girl’s display of reserve and rejection?
1. Observe the expression
If a girl is reserved, you can actually tell if you look closely. For example, when you are in the same place, the moment you look at her, she immediately pretends to look at the scenery or playing with her mobile phone. Only girls who are interested in you will be afraid of you seeing through her little thoughts. And if a girl really rejects you, she won't pay much attention to you because she is afraid of getting involved with you.
2. Physical distance
If you are walking with a girl and cross the road together, queue up, etc. , if a girl really rejects you, she will keep her distance from you and take the initiative to move away from you. On the contrary, if the girl seems not to notice your approach, it means that she has accepted this very intimate area, and maybe she is still secretly happy in her heart.
3. Obedience test
When judging a girl’s reserve and rejection, you can also pass the reusability test. For example: if you usually talk to a girl late, you can say that the alarm clock is not enough. Hibiki tells her to wake you up the next day. (See if the girl will agree) Or show up a few minutes late for the date to see if the girl will resent it. Or pretend to go to the toilet and ask her to help buy drinks or something. You know, if a girl is not interested in you, who cares about you?
4. Be friends
In real life, girls often talk about being friends. In this situation, if the girl says coldly "Let's just be friends" after the boy confesses her love, and then ignores the boy, it is obviously a true rejection. But if a girl says, "Let's be friends first," and then continues to chat with you, she may be being reserved. The underlying meaning is: Don't be too impatient, I'll give you a chance to see how you perform.
5. Calling for a long time
If a girl chats with you every day, sometimes you can’t hang up the phone and you can’t tell what the other party means. It’s really hard to catch a girl’s emotional intelligence. Urgent, you know, women can spend an entire night looking at Taobao. But the fact that she can chat with you for so long is enough to prove your importance in her heart.
In fact, the reason why many girls are reserved is because society puts pressure on them. It seems that girls who are not reserved do not love themselves. And if a girl really rejects you, it’s just because she doesn’t like you. So to judge whether a girl likes you or not, the performance is actually very obvious. So, you can tell that the girl is interested in you.Are you being reserved or refusing?
